why does he have a new girlfriend already? i’m a mess?

Asked: why does he have a new girlfriend already? i’m a mess?

me and my ex dated for about 4 months. we met on an online dating site and talked for about a month before we even hung out. we were both really interested in each other and he called me every single day and was always asking me to hang out. he would tell me how beautiful i am and how he was really interested in me.

the first time we hung out we did sleep together and that was 100% initiated by me. i felt so comfortable and felt it was right and in the moment. after we hung out he texted me telling me he missed me and how i have a smile that brightens up his day. he told me he told his friend how amazing i was. he was always talking about future plans and how he was excited about what this is/what it's going to be. he was having trouble finding a job and i would give him advice and he said "you know when your day couldn't get any worse and then someone comes along and makes everything better..and you just wanna give them the world? that's you everyday..i really really like you" he asked to take me out on dates, and he asked me to be his girlfriend at the end of june. i met his family, he met mine. things were great.

in the middle of july, he enlisted in the military. ever since then, things seemed to be hot and cold with him. he broke up with me at the end of august because he was supposed to be leaving for boot camp in january and didn't see a point in having the relationship. i was hurt, but there was nothing i could do. he would call me everyday since the break up, told me he missed me, asked me on a date..and i said yes. we decided to exclusively date but he didn't want the title because he wanted to take things slowly. he said "i'm the problem, trust me i would never lead you on..i'm afraid of falling in love and getting hurt" he was in a bad 5 year relationship where his ex cheated on him. i was eating dinner over his house with his family again, etc.

everything seemed to be going really well until one week he was distant because he was focusing on getting this one particular job so he didn't have to join the army. he was making excuses as to why he couldn't see me, and i felt something was up. i brought him a coffee at the end of the week. he said it was weird and made him feel uneasy. he said thats bf gf status and thats not what we are, meanwhile the week before he asked me to go on a cruise. he told me hes focused on getting this job and not on me and him, and he doesnt know what he wants and what his future holds. then he told me his feelings changed, and about a week later he's already in a new relationship with a new girl. and he got this new job so he doesn't have to join the army, but he's moving upstate in the spring..

1. did he ever have feelings for me?
2. why do you think his feelings changed?


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