Why are we told to be alpha males I’ll be who I want being something I’m not isn’t for me?

Asked: Why are we told to be alpha males I’ll be who I want being something I’m not isn’t for me?

WHO tells you you have to be a alpha male? Pickup artist forums? Sure it works for some but if you have to fake being something you're not, it'll bite you in the butt at one point. Be all YOU can be and that will be good enough.


I do want a man to take charge when necessary but not walk around like a bully. So be yourself, just know in life as a man some women what for a man to take control of situations

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Generally speaking males are supposed to be the physical and monetary support structure of a relationship. Alphas are always in charge, I pride myself on being an alpha. I don't like situations that I'm not in control of, and if I end up in one, I tend to assess everyone and make inferences from there about them and how to control them and the situation in general. Being a beta just means that you tend to take cues rather then create them. Which is fine, if you think you can deal with not always being in control then by all means. Ive just found that personally, if I'm not in control I question everything, assume the worst and let that be a self-fulfilling destructive prophecy. Ultimately it comes down to how much you trust the situation, sometimes it pays to be a beta, but usually being an alpha has a whole host of benefits. When the cats away the mice will play, its a saying that's proved far more real then anything else I've heard. People watch their ps and qs around those they feel they need to, I like to be a part of those who need to. If someone believes they don't have to mind themselves around you, they tend to give themselves more leeway. If this question is regard to a relationship and your male, being a beta opens up a pandoras box of insecurity and questions. Although I'm an alpha, I feel as though I've opened the same box. The key difference is how we'll handle it. I will watch for the first signs of trouble, cut and run as soon as it becomes prudent, and never look back. A beta would get blindsided, doubt themselves, and let that dictate the future. So its really a question of if your a leader or a follower.
I just think it's more of a motivational phrase. Try to be the best and achieve the best because it can help you in the future. Although personally speaking I am constantly trying to be better than anyone, but I guess I'm in an extremely competitive environment. Don't take it literally and think they're telling you that you have to be the best, because we would have a lot more depressed people in the world when they realise that they can't be better than everyone.

And again it is just part of nature for a male to try take over power. Kind of why we have wars. Not always but sometimes it's just the struggle for power. There is always an Alpha male Lion in a pride. I have four dogs and one is the stand out dominant male.

It's just nature but don't take it as if you had to be like every other person.

There is only one Man who Will make you completely fulfilled, and that Man is Jesus. I promise that if you seek him and let him into your heart you will experience rest and Everlasting Joy. I pray that you will take this message to heart and experience TRUE Happiness in Jesus. God Bless. ps. Pray to Jesus about all of your problems so that he will help you like he has helped me always.

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