Undecided Question: Why do pickup artist tell men to be more of an alpha male? I just want to be myself not someone else

Asked: Undecided Question: Why do pickup artist tell men to be more of an alpha male? I just want to be myself not someone else

For me I want to be in relationships where its with the right persons and not trying to be anything but Me. Many things pickup artists do don't work anyway or might work once or twice, never found them really helpful.

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Pick-up artists don't want relationships, generally.Pick-up tactics net women that want to be picked up.Women that want relationships usually aren't looking to be picked up and don't respond to being "worked".Therefore, you're playing football on a chess board.

Just be you, and be there.Mingle with mixed groups with whom you share interests (e.g. cycling club, hackerspace, political organization).Be there to have fun and reach the shared goal, not work the crowd.Talk with people.Do this enough, and you will meet someone with whom you click.

Best wishes!

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