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Did I hurt his feelings?? he ignoring me he won’t reply to my messages?

Asked: Did I hurt his feelings?? he ignoring me he won’t reply to my messages?

Iam been seeing this guy and he said that me and him are taking it slowly anyway yesterday he got jealous because some guy voicenote me on bbm saying iam thinking about u bby and the guy iam seeing said let me send him a voicenote I will tell him to stop flirting with my girl then we went to my mates house and he wernt cuddling me or kissing me (even though he did this at mine 2weeks ago infront of my mum) but he poked his tongue out at me few times while playing his xbox and he played with my hair too
I sent a broadcast on bbm bout (it was a banter broadcast) valentines day then he copied mine and sent it out I message him saying copycat lol x he said lol x then I said jokes lol x then 15mins later He sent a broadcast (on bbm) today saying I love my valentine with pictures of roses and hearts.
I said good luck he read this but didn't reply
So messaged him again saying I think we should just be mates now he replied back and said y then he messaged again saying that was for you you num nut x. I said yh right he read this but didn't reply back and that was our last chat
But my mate message him saying who your valentines the he said sharon and she said really he said yes but she pi**es me off the way she goes she said what u mean? He said she don't trust me iam thinking off walking away she said sharon f*cking likes u he read this but didn't reply so I sent him this I know I haven't sed it but I do love u n iam scared to show my feelings but iam more scared off getting hurt again n iam insecure n iam sorry if I upset n hurt u xx he read it but didn't reply back (at the time when I sent this message I did have on my bbm status that I was getting drunk) he's still got me on bbm though

Why won't he reply back??

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Just broke up with my girlfriend. Need advice on if I had done the right thing? Begging for advice.?

Asked: Just broke up with my girlfriend. Need advice on if I had done the right thing? Begging for advice.?

Me and my girlfriend met 2 years ago back in EMT school. I wasn't looking for love or any of that but fell completely head over heels for her. We started dating and it was incredible. I understand the whole "honeymoon phase" but it was still great. Her sister recently met a guy from New York and had been dating him ever since. For her birthday she wanted my gf and her best friend to go to New York with her to celebrate last year. THAT'S FINE, NO BIGGIE. Upon her first arrival back, all i kept hearing was how much fun she had and how late she stayed out till (which bothers me alittle) and here's where it gets serious. She kept talking about how her sisters bf's friends are the COOLEST GUYS, SO NICE, DIDN'T MAKE THEM PAY FOR ANYTHING, LIMO RIDES, whole nine yards. I am currently dealing with financial issues due to my father leaving my family and helping my mother out. So hearing all of this, i felt a little threatened by the "New York guys" I got an extra job, make more $$ and try taking her out more to fancy dinners. I wanted the same feeling she had when she went out to New York. Even though she denies money makes her happy, she loves getting treated. What woman wouldn't. After a few weeks back, i started getting nervous because whenever all or a few of the "New York guys" came in, she always felt obligated to go hang out with them. Now im nervous. I'm thinking WHAT HAS HAPPENED OUT THERE THAT MAKES THESE GUYS SOOO WONDERFUL AFTER A WEEKEND?? Im thinking these guys should mean NOTHING to her due to only being her sisters bf's friends. She doesnt owe them anything. I asked all the questions..DO YOU LIKE ONE OF THEM? DID YOU CHEAT? Answer was a shocking NO HOW CAN YOU THINK THAT?! One day, which i NEVER HAVE DONE BEFORE, checked her phone privately. I read texts between her best friend saying the following after a fight we had.
Best friend- Hey, whats up
My GF – nothing, just a litte sad, me and brandon are fighting again.
Best friend – aww well im about to cheer you up. The New York guys are coming in!!
My Gf – OMG THATS SUCH GREAT NEWS! You have made me so happy right now! My co workers are even wondering why i have such a huge smile on my face. They are such great guys and give me butterflies in my stomach. I don't have a crush on them or anything, it's just they make me so happy.
WHAT THE **** AM I SUPPOSED TO THINK AFTER THIS?!?She denies cheating, she states shes been nothing but loyal, and im the only guy for her. She just had such a great time in New York. She insists that she worded it wrong. How else can you reword that? Call it jealously or whatever, but no bf wants to see that.All in all. We almost broke up. A few weeks back, I had to endure being uncomfortable and depressed when she left yet again for New York for her sisters birthday. She promised everything was going to be ok, don't worry.she knows it bothers me but shes coming back to me. So she leaves. First few days doesn't call, text, NOTHING. Now what gf does that knowing im sitting back in Chicago depressed worrying about her. Upon her arriving back, she was soooooo tired for a few days. Now i deleted facebook so i couldnt see any pictures or anything. She insists she came home around 12-1am everyday, which i later found out it was 5-6am. Everyday was partying with the guys and her sis. I understand..vacation..have fun. JUST DON'T LIE TO ME. Last night there we had a talk about everything and she promised she was there for her sisters birthday, nothing else. Found out later that night her sister went home tired while she went out with her best friend and the New York guys until midnight. Her sister…really?. This time on her trip, it was same routine. Bottle service, clubs, limos, late night partying. At this point, i cant even see or hear anything about New York without getting sick to my stomach.So shes back home. A week ago i sat her down telling her i have not been happy for a few months now. We both promised we'll work it out. Ever since "the talk" we been going out more, being lovey dovey, everything. I decided just yesterday i wanted a Twitter. Something my gf has had but i didn't. Upon creating one, im reading "her tweets" over the last few months. Some in the past mocking me and my words during our fights joking about it with her friends and this one. WORDS CANNOT DESCRIBE MY WEEKEND IN NEW YORK. HAD A BLAST WITH THE MOST INCREDIBLE GUYS I KNOW. Keep in mind, we almost broke up about the texts last year. She admits she was wrong. She knows we're on the edge and im on my breaking point and still writes things like this KNOWING i didnt have a Twitter? STILL praising these guys behind my back? She tells me shes sorry and she was wrong. Her sister even says she dumb As for me i'm tired of it. So i broke it off last night. Tomorrow is VDAY and our 3 year is March 31. Am i doing the right thing?

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Can you give Vedic Astrological help to my friend? Please?

Asked: Can you give Vedic Astrological help to my friend? Please?

My friend is having a horrible time. She is wester and married an Indian very fast without knowing him more than one month. Theyve been married since Nov. She does not feel she can trust him and feels jealous always of him and feels deep in her heart he thinks of another woman. They've only been married two months. Two people who were INTUITIVE told her he IS thinking of another woman. They fight constantly and he has threatened to kill her twice. He jas hit her countless times, even in the head and she has painthe following day. I've told her to leave because he sounds dangerous- but she keeps changing her mind- I don't know what advice to give her Because I've seen her navamsha 7th and it has Saturn Ketu and Venus in 7th. I want to be a good friend but need insight here.
In NAVAMSHA she has 1-Rahu and Asc
3 house- merc
6th house- sun
7- Saturn Ketu and Venus
11- moon
12- mars
Her date of birth is Aug 9 1977 6:31 AM in FALUN SWEDEN

I just read that Venusin 7th means unsuccessful marriage. They never did guna matching because he had no birth time information.
I know Ketu means karmic situation so I want to give theright advice. She has made an appointment for divorce tomorrow. He is not sure of it. What is the outcome here?

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Having a young mistress in a loveless, sexless marriage?

Asked: Having a young mistress in a loveless, sexless marriage?

Hey guys, need some advice.

Im 48 years old and i've been trapped in a loveless, sexless marriage devoid of life or happiness for years, i've stayed with my wife because of the kids but our relationship has been dead cold since she cheated on me a decade ago and i lost all trust and respect for her.

I spend lots of time overseas in countries like Taiwan, Hong Kong and Japan (5 months per year) for business, and i've started a parallel life over there with another younger woman who can satisfy my desire for companionship, love, and sex.

I've recently started dating a beautiful 21 year old Hong Kong girl who i met through a dating agency and i want our relationship to become more serious. Whatever her reasons for dating an old white guy, money, visa, sugar daddy, i don't care because she makes me happy; and of course the sex is just incredible, something i haven't got from my wife in more than 10 years.

My question being, should i continue to make this relationship more serious or should i treat it as just a foreign fling in another country where no-one will ever find out and not get hurt since she is still young and might see it that way?

Shes already agreed to move in with me, and i im already thinking of marriage, having children, family with her etc.

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Why are we told to be alpha males I’ll be who I want being something I’m not isn’t for me?

Asked: Why are we told to be alpha males I’ll be who I want being something I’m not isn’t for me?

WHO tells you you have to be a alpha male? Pickup artist forums? Sure it works for some but if you have to fake being something you're not, it'll bite you in the butt at one point. Be all YOU can be and that will be good enough.

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