rmrccy Asked: Is it possible to get out of the friend zone?

i met this girl last semester at school and we started meeting up to study together. during those couple of months and all the small talk she never told me that she had a bf (its not like we were flirting with each other though) when the semester ended she told me that she was so glad that she met me and that we needed to hangout over winter break. when i asked her out to dinner she said, as friends because i have a bf but he doesn't care if we hangout. i was crushed when she said that but decided to go anyway because i played it off as she was just a friend. after that night of going to dinner i realized that i had a lot more in common with her then i thought. we had a great time together and since then we have gone out at least 8 more times. when we go out though she asks me for advice about her bf because they've been going through rough times.
She recently broke up with her bf and i was wondering if there is a way out of the friend zone? i just find it hard because it took her so long to tell me about her bf and then when she did she still wanted to go out with me. i told myself from the start that i should just give up on her but i've been single, from a long relationship, for about 15 months and in that time i have dated quite a few different girls but she is the first girl that i can actually see myself being with so I'm having a hard time just walking away.

Sam Asked: online dating question?

I have been single for roughly a year now, although I have been on a few dates in that time just for fun and to hang with some girls and so on, although I wasn't necessarily expecting anything to happen.

I have had 2 girlfriends in the past who have both said the exact same thing, that although I suck at getting girls interested, that once a girl is keen I am the perfect boyfriend and treat my girls well. So knowing I suck at the meeting girls bit, a friend suggested I join an online dating website, which I did.

Although I have made contact with 3 girls, I will focus on 1 because I think what has happened with her is basically the same as what has happened with the others. On Wednesday and Friday, I sent a kiss, an 'icebreaker' if you will, and got a reply from this girl that she was keen (we have similar interests – dont drink, like people with dark features, love staying in, both hate people who are over the top etc and the site said we were a match based on our answers to a relatively extensive questionaire). The only thing which we aren't alike in, is that she wants someone within 25km and I live roughly 45km away.

Anyway, with this girl I decided to buy stamps and initiate contact with her. It set me back roughly $60 but that's ok, I'm not worried about the cash. Because I was busy with family being down, I didn't get the chance to send her an email through the site until Sunday morning, and even then it was through my phone, so when I saw her online at say 11pm Sunday night, I re-sent that email (all it said was "hey, how are you hope your having a great weekend and I would love to have a chat soon," that kind of thing).

I decided to re-send the email with the exact same words because my phone has been having reception problems and I didn't know if the email went through. Nonetheless, probably not the smartest move and I know that.

She hasn't got back to me since I sent that email, and the website tells you when the person is online, shes been online everyday if not just for 10min and she hasn't got back to me, although since that second email she hasn't viewed my profile from what I can tell (theres an option to not allow people to see that you've viewed their email).

So I was going to send her one last email in another couple days, by which stage it will have been about 5 days since last contact and say something like how i would like to chat cos we are very similar and who knows what could happen. Is there anything I should say, or what would you do in my situation, because I will only send one more email and be done with her, after all you CAN'T force someone to like you or talk to you, and why bother chasing someone who isn't keen?

Keep in mind this has happened to 3 girls, not one. I'm just using this one as an example.

In any case, I'm also just wondering if anyone has any advice for online dating sites and how to make them a successful venture

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