Neil Strauss Dating Course Part 6

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The Annihilation Method Part 6

“Pebbles” are just little things you can say to amp attraction with beautiful women. For example, if she says something you don’t like, you can jokingly say, “We could never be together.”, or “This relationship isn’t gonna work out(within the first 2 minutes of meeting her).” or “Just because I flirt a lot doesn’t mean I put out.. despite what you may have heard.” If a girl touches you & flirts just a little say, “I’m sorry, I need trust & comfort before I can let you fondle me like that.”

When your wingman joins the group one funny way to tease the girl you like is when you get around to introducing her say, “This is Amy. She’s amazing, she’s smart, she’s funny… would you believe she’s never had a boyfriend?”, smile.” This is another great little “pebble“.

Girls love role-playing. While your using push-pull and qualifying the girl you want, do something like this; When she says something you like.. be like, “Oh my God, you can_____?” That’s awesome! Let’s get married right now! Then pretend your husband and wife until she says something you don’t like… At which point you will divorce her and demand half of her money. Hilarious. And much better than asking boring interview-style questions of each other.

It’s really fun to bust on girls in a fun and teasing way to increase sexual tension. Remember, you never want to be mean.. you’re simply taking the frame of big brother and putting her in the frame of bratty little sister. For example, if she says excitedly that she just saw the movie The Notebook, you might say sarcastically, “And your point is?” with a little smirk. Or if she trips you might say, “What a dufus.” Or if she mispronounces some text she’s reading you might say, “Oh my God, you can’t read.” Remember to calibrate these things.. It should be funny not mean. If she thinks you’re serious you need to ease up a little. Understand: All of these things fall under the category of creating a more fun, intense, and enjoyable interaction.

When you bust on a girl prepare to have it thrown back on you. You’ll get better at “having a better answer” as you get more practice, so don’t worry about that. Also be prepared to laugh at yourself and be able to take your own medicine. If she gets you really good just say, “Respect” or “Oooh, good one!” and give her five or a high five. Or best yet, “That was clever, you get 5 points” When she gets 20 points you can tell her she’ll get the first 3 digits of your phone # or something cocky and funny. Always stay positive and fun. Oh, don’t forget to subtract points if she messes up in any way!

It’s not true that you should never give a woman a straight answer. Sure teasing is great, but it has it’s limits and can get tiresome if overdone. The first time a girl ask you a question you can joke, make her guess, or whatever. That’s fun, but if she ask again it’s cool to give a straight answer.

By the time a girls starts asking you lots of questions it usually means she’s attracted and things like age, origin, career, etc. won’t matter as much anyway. And if they do matter a little they’re still small obstacles that can be overcome with persistence and patience.

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David Gideon

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