My insecure friend is annoying me?

Asked: My insecure friend is annoying me?

When guys pay attention to her she starts liking them. There is this guy she's never liked before but the second he makes a move on her she's like "Oh, he's kinda cute". Than she started dating this guy she liked and she complains she has a boyfriend so the guy needs to stop and he's getting mad about the guy bothering her and flirting with her, yet she does nothing to stop it.

I give her advice and encourage her to stop it if she's annoyed with it and if her and her boyfriend are fighting over the guy. Yet she doesn't. She keeps on letting him bother her, touch her, and pay attention to her. She doesn't say stop or anything, she tries to bother him back and keeps paying attention to him.

And she hurts herself when her and her boyfriend fight, I and her other couple friends know it. She's really starting to piss me off. She keeps telling me her boyfriend hates the guy bothering her but she just lets it happen. I'm pretty sure she enjoys the attention because before she's done this before with guys, suddenly liking them or dating them just because they paid a bit of attention to her.

I know it's none of my business, but it's really ticking off me watching her do this. What can I do? What can I say to her?


honestly shes acting exactly like a normal teenage girl, you need to calm down since it really is none of your business and has nothing to do with you, talk to her about the self harm though, that could be a sign of some deeper issues, and dont you get mad at her for that, if your truelly her friend than you would feel compassionate towards her and want to help her. if you dont feel this dont be her friend

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