I’m 20 and never been on a date!?
Asked: I’m 20 and never been on a date!?
Im 20 never been on a date with a girl. At What age should a person have been on a date at least once. Should I start soon or something. I haven't even kissed a girl. Is this normal? I'm painfully shy and afraid of rejection and I have never had the guts to ask a girl out. I've never even met a girl that's been interested in me. I have zero confidence with the opposite sex and I cant ever imagine myself getting a gf. I think its because I'm ugly and everyone I know has had a gf or bf.
I'm starting to exercise by jogging.
This is what turns girls off ….'I'm painfully shy and afraid of rejection and I have never had the guts to ask a girl out. I've never even met a girl that's been interested in me. I have zero confidence with the opposite sex and I cant ever imagine myself getting a gf.''…. girls are strangely attracted to funny confident boys.. girls can detect whether you are not confident as soon as you walk inaroom… my advice would be to seriously start studying dating and girl attraction. Check out a few books by David DeAngelo. Helped me from being shy into having quite a few hot girls. Im only average looking haha. check it out u got nothing to loose
Hi well here are 4 starters to help u on the road to a more POSITIVE image and will help u overcome those conversation blanks & low self- esteem issues Ciao
1. BE SELF-AWARE AND DEVELOP A POSITIVE SELF-IMAGE
When you trust yourself, are self-aware and can frame yourself in positive terms, your confidence soars
2. TAKE CONFIDENCE CUES FROM PEOPLE YOU ADMIRE
You need to fake it til you make it! Consider the way a confident person behavesobserve a friend, relative or colleague
3. FOCUS ON YOUR STRENGTHS, NOT YOUR WEAKNESSES
If you have a realistic understanding of your own strengths (we all have our strengths) and apply that to your most important and meaningful goals, you have a powerful tool with which to build self-confidence.
4. BEWARE OF BARRIERS TO ACHIEVING YOUR OBJECTIVES
If frustrating obstacles or negative feedback cross your path, dont give up! Developing confidence takes a little persistence. Set realistic expectations: those lacking self-confidence often see an everyday barrier as a signal to throw in the towel.
For example, if in conversation and it goes quiet or u say dopey things then LISTEN and ANSWER accordingly about subject dont expect to be the life of the group right awaythis unrealistic expectation puts too much pressure on you. A good talking strategy is to give others your full attention. This not only shifts your focus away from thoughts like this is a disaster, but also makes people around you feel wonderfula two-way confidence booster!
Now go and let others see your no shrinking violet YES!! Candice
I wouldnt say its not normal. some people are just shy and since your older and maturer im sure the first girl you have will be even more special
my advice would be do whatever it takes to build your confiden ce and try to approach a girl who you think you can get because honestly a girl wont approach you its kind of a guy thing to do because girls hate rejection and are shy lol.
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