How To Create A Great First Date
1. Invite her to stop by your place first for a glass of wine and then go from there
This should only last 15-30 minutes. The purpose is to get her comfortable being in your place and to show her that being there doesn’t mean you’re going to jump her bones. After the date you can invite her back for another glass of wine…
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2. Take her to a part of town with unusual or interesting sights, shops, or activities
This creates the conversation for you and gives you lots of material to joke as you display your humor and personality. In other words, it helps you create a fun experience for her.
Skip the dinner and movie routine. Movies are a terrible first date… unless you don’t really feel like talking to or getting to know the girl you’re taking out. Buying every girl you want to date dinner is expensive and not paying can make things awkward. Why not just get creative and go on fun, inexpensive dates?
3. Don’t engage in any heavy talk.
No discussions about all the girls that broke your heart, how your dog died and you cried every night for two months, your loneliness, etc.
There comes a time when you can show your softer side, but these times should be much later and should only last for five minutes, tops. Think of it as a spice; a little makes the meal taste better.. a lot ruins everything.
David Gideon
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