How do you become friends again even if you still love her?!?
Adam Asked: How do you become friends again even if you still love her?!?
I was seeing a girl who was still with her boyfriend but who she was unhappy with. She split up with him (one reason was to give things a go with me). A week after the split she found out she was pregnant with his baby. She doesn't want to get back with him and he doesn't want anything to do with the baby. I asked her if we could now go out properly and she said 'i'm not saying never just not now' but she also said 'don't stop looking for someone just because of me'.I work with her so i see her everday and it leaves me heartbroken.
I realise it may not be possible to be with her now but i'd still like to be the good friends we once were, so if in the future she wants to date me again that we haven't become to distant with each other. We used to chat all the time at work and whenever i said i better get on with some work now she said no stay and chat with me a bit longer! Now whenever we're in the same room we have have a brief chat and she'll then leave. Or some time she walks past me and says hello but then she'll go and stop and have a chat with other friends at work. I feel so jealous of them because they get to have a laugh with her and i don't.
I don't know if she's pushing me away to protect me from the situation she is in with all that's going on in her life? Or is it all in my head?! Today i was looking at photos of us on works nights out earlier in the year and i realise we look so happy together. I just couldn't stop crying about how much as changed since then.
All this is so hard to take as she started everything that went on with us. She was always hugging me and touching me at work and told me she was unhappy with her boyfriend. She left him to give things a go with me but now it doesn't even feel like we're even really friends anymore! How can this of happened? We were still getting on really well when she said she was pregnant so i don't see why our friendship should of suffered so much?
Any advice really appreciated.
Answers:
don't do it!!
its hard
All thoughs things you talked about with her…you really need to bring back. Like that tv show you watched last night. That way she knows your her friend and that you will always be with her.
She Already Made Her Desicion, She Made It Clear That She Doesn't Wanna Be In A Relationship -For Now . – You Could Try Talkinqq To Her About How You Feel . You Never Know If She's Goinqq To Chanqee Her Mind After She Hears What You Got To Say ? But Let Me Ask You ? If This Is One Of Them Serious Relatinships – Are You Willinq To Support Her ? Especially Now That She's Preqnant ? That's A Biqq Responsibility .! If So , Tell Her That ?Either Way Gud Luck ! Hope EveryThinqq Works Out For You.
* In My Opinion- It's Had To Be Friends With Someone You Have Stronqq Feelinqs For.
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